Does portion control
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Portion control is not as hard as it sounds.



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Bill wants to lose weight. He's heard of portion control, but he doesn't understand it. The very thought of lumps of food the size of his fist doesn't even make sense. A lump of what? Plum pudding with hard sauce? Steamed green beans? The first is high in calories; the second has almost no calories. They can't possibly be equivalent. Besides, if he's already happy with the amount he eats, doesn't portion control mean that he'll have to be hungry? Bill is confused about portion control, and doesn't want to do it.

Bill has already tried traditional dieting. He lost some weight initially while on a low-fat diet, but then gained it back plus another thirty pounds. Then he switched to a low-carb diet, but he loves beans, fruit, hot cereals and nuts, all of which he will have to feel guilty about eating for the rest of his life.

He doesn't want to count calories or any other food value. He knows this will only increase his food focus, and besides, he doesn't have time or concentration at the office cafeteria to be counting what's in his food. Bill doesn't realize that ever since his attempt at the low-fat diet, his portions have become even bigger than when he started dieting, and his weight is still rising.


How is portion control different from calorie restriction?

The conventional wisdom that calories matter most is correct. However, there is a problem with how calorie restriction is often implemented. Bill mistakenly believes that he needs to alter his food so as to reduce the calories within the food. He has tried altering it by reducing the fat, and he has tried altering it by reducing the carbs. But neither is correct. Altering his food has led to meals that are less than delicious and are not quite suited to his taste. That's why he couldn't last very long on the food-altering diets. What Bill needs to learn to do is to reduce the overall calories on his plate by making his portions small, regardless of their content.

How can I make portion control work for me?

Here are the basic principles that will help Bill succeed at losing weight permanently.

  1. Bill needs to get back in touch with what he really likes, and aim to eat only what is delicious. He needs to re-learn how to be a picky eater. He will learn how to eat food with just the right amounts of salt, sugar, fats, carbs, protein, fruits, and vegetables to suit his individual tastes, and no one else's.
  2. Bill needs to learn how to wait until he is hungry before he eats. After years of dieting, he may have lost touch with his hunger signals, but he can re-train himself over time. He can experiment to find out whether it's a stomach growl, or a headache, or a slump in energy, or some other symptom that tells him he's hungry.
  3. He needs to work at learning when to stop eating. As we grow older, our metabolism does slow a little bit, and we need to change our criterion for fullness. In fact, it is helpful to change the word to "satiety" (suh-ty-e-tee.) With a little attention in the beginning, Bill will discover that at a certain point during his meal, the hunger symptoms will go away. That is when he should stop, not when he's full or stuffed.
  4. It takes about twenty minutes for your body to register satiety, so in the beginning it could help if Bill takes his time eating. Once he gets used to how much food will do the trick, he'll be able to estimate the size of the portion on his plate and will become free to eat quickly when he's in a hurry.
  5. If counting twenty minutes doesn't work for Bill, there is an alternative. He can aim for "eighty percent full." This will take time, too but he has the wisdom to do it. He needs to start believing that.
  6. Bill can learn to aim for perfect, tiny, balanced meals. His tastes will tell him just how much potatoes, just how much lamb, just how much green beans, just how much mint jelly, and just how much pecan pie. He can learn to eat a perfect amount of each. He even knows just how much water or wine to drink. He will learn to leave behind anything on his plate that isn't quite right, such as a dried out green bean or a burnt piece of pie crust.
  7. It is best for Bill to stop thinking in terms of "good" and "bad" foods. In the just-right amounts, all foods are good. However, theres is one food category that he might pay a little attention to. When it comes to carbohydrates, Bill would do well to largely stick to whole grains, such as oatmeal and seven-grain bread, and complex starches, such as beans and nuts. By steering largely away from refined flour foods such as white-flour pasta, he will help control the glycemic index of his foods, thus assisting his slowing metabolism to burn his food as fuel rather than store it as fat. So when he does have an occasional slice of pecan pie, it will probably be a sliver. However, this is not a hard and fast rule. Food choices do not a diet make.

You might not be hungry if

If you are not truly hungry, you will be able to drink a bottle of water, and be fine for another hour or two. Here are some circumstances in which you might discover that you're not actually hungry yet:

  • Your stomach is grumbly, but you don't feel fatigued.
  • You feel fatigued, but you can attribute it to sickness, depression, some other kind of upset, or lack of sleep.
  • You have a headache, but no other accompanying signs.
  • You have some signs of hunger, along with a circumstance that has caused you stress or some kind of upset

If you've ruled out greed, stress, and emotions, you might be hungry if:

  • You feel fatigued and your stomach is grumbly.
  • You have a headache and you feel fatigued
  • You have all of your usual signs of hunger, even if they are not on this list

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Bill could learn a little more about portion sizes from reading about The Zone Diet or The South Beach Diet, as long as he remembers that sugar really is acceptable. In fact, all foods are acceptable. He can also search the Web for "low-carb" and "glycemic index" to Find out more information.

But even better, Bill could subscribe to the free e-mail newsletter, Diet Survivors™ (View a sample without subscribing.)

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Bill might also like to buy the book How to Survive Your Diet and Conquer Your Food Issues Forever by Linda Moran. This book will help him with his thoughts and self-talk as they are directly related to portion control. Learn more.



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Linda Moran, author of How to Survive Your Diet and Conquer Your Food Issues Forever, understands that portion control scares people. After struggling with dysfunctional eating, Moran discovered that portion control has some guidelines that make it easy. It turns out that you don't have to go hungry if you start eating less food! Moran was so anxious to share this discovery that it led her to write this book. Order today.



What about other diet problems?

To read more about how to solve diet problems, click on Solve your dieting problems. Diet problems are also addressed in How to Survive Your Diet and its companion newsletter, Diet Survivors™.

To learn more about normal eating, read what is normal eating?


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